Breathing and Biting: Life and Learning
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| Playful learning :teeth test the world |
The end of the year is looming into view and Mayan calendars are noticeably not in the shops for 2013. It has been a rich and active time with moving to Dublin and maintaining our links in the West of Ireland as well.
A good solid year of work at ALFA (Active Learning for Adolescents) in County Clare, completing in early June, the Fetac 4 with our 15 - 17 year old graduating students. The qualifications gave us freedom to follow our own curriculum but give some outer recognition of their work as well. We got that in spades. Our drama course led to some excellent and challenging work with everyone doing brilliantly. A puppet show of Beowulf in collaboration with Judith Evans of Dandelion Puppets and two films in collaboration with the fabulous Emma Samms.
Highlights also included mentoring teachers in play writing and play production, workshops in storytelling and the
Breathing Circle work in Limerick and having one of my plays accepted in the repertoire of the National Association of Youth Drama in Ireland. Over the last 12 months the
Breath and the Word work was also offered in France with a lively group of Feldenkrais practitioners, parents, and performers. We developed verses to work for our own mother tongue so that French and Spanish, the native and more familiar rhythms for this group, could really take wing in sounds and stories. Brilliantly hosted by Mexican Kindergarten teacher and Feldenkrais practitioner, Carmen Lleranas in Chatou, Paris.
Later in the same month, in Ennis, County Clare in Ireland, the Steiner based Fetac 5 course for child carers included a
Breath and the Word workshop where we uncovered our creativity, developing verses for children and in particular, those who bite. This is a real preoccupation for some parents and carers and below are outlined some thoughts on why some young children may bite with a verse that can alleviate their pent up frustration and may be help.
I have also been working with a Transition Year group in Dublin offering language enhancement as we studied Malcolm Gladwell's essay in his book
Outliers on plane crashes. He has an ethnic theory about why some airlines crash more than others which could be a hot issue but it is a fascinating study in communication, cultural difference and direct versus ambiguous or circular ways of using language. We always started with lots of movement games tied into our theme and had lively discussion using the Harkness table method of preparation and development.
Children who Bite
Why do some young children bite? It causes great angst to parents and carers and can get a toddler labelled and marginalised in less time than it takes to flip an egg. My intuition is that the physical body is undergoing such huge developmental changes and growth that as the child explores, responds, inquires and senses the world, the sensations that pour in can overwhelm the child who is not able to quite express themselves. When we are frustrated, our breath tightens and moves upwards as the the diaphragm, back and chest constrict. The joints: ankles, knees, hip bones and pelvic floor, shoulder, and jaw are all axes that transect the body. As we tighten in one area, tension shifts upwards and collects in the next axis, arriving, if we have insufficient release, eventually in the last axis, the jaw. That is why tense people clench their jaws or become motor mouths, contraction or release being the natural responses. However, when we breathe into the feet, wake up our feet by tapping, walking, dancing, or massaging and rubbing we bring the breath movement in our bodies downwards where it can release in the feet that way and as well create more inner space in the body.
This is why gentle rhythmic walking is soothing as is foot rubbing or foot baths or simply rubbing our feet on the floor.
A child who is pre-verbal or early in his/her verbal capacity may feel frustrated surrounded by stimuli, chatter, other children's flow, lighting, noise, take your choice. The need to release is fundamental and how do you release? It goes up or down, in or out. Down is better when expression is reactive and angry but if you can not express yourself verbally as air flows over the larynx and and sounds and words combine to open doors and make connections well...those newly sprouting teeth will make their mark!
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Learning from the Animals
Watching the satisfaction dogs derive in play from BITING into things and looking at
ourselves when we bite into things with instinctive relish can show us how the primal lust for life is linked with satisfaction and enjoyment.
If we think about how we use language and phrases about 'getting our teeth into something', 'biting into life' these connote an appetite, a lust for life. How do we challenge this strong life force and transform it for children who are overwhelmed by this and feelings of anger and frustration?
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| Satisfaction: using teeth the right way |
Simple consonantal sounds give release 'b' 'p' 'g' 't' and 'd' while vowels create a sense of space and flow. If we create very simple verses with lots of repetition and consonantal emphasis maybe we can help our biting children? Perhaps research is in order here?
This verse below combines some of these sounds and also encourages a downward earth emphasis.
Dig Away!
Dig, dig, dig, down on the land.
Dig, dig, dig, with my spade in my hand.
Two feet keeping me steady and strong.
Hands and fingers gripping all day long.
Dig, dig, dig, to move those rocks!
Dig dig dig move away those blocks!
Place the little seed in the earth.
Watch it grow and come to birth!
Movement, repetition, the magic of repeating three times, and gestures, all help this verse get planted too. Downward digging and engaging the limbs and hands and feet extend the breathing all the way to the periphery and release the backbone where tension can also collect. The images and strong sounds can nourish and distract a nervous system caught up in frustrated dead-ends that think biting someone's bottom is the only way out. The last two lines can become more lyrical and flowing as the breath movement expands and moves up for song and expression becoming more flowing, easier, less bulldozer-like. Good for adults and children alike!